Change feels hard because it is hard. It asks us to challenge biology, confront fear, grieve what we’re leaving behind, and step into uncertainty. That’s a tall order for anyone.

But here’s the truth worth holding onto: resistance is not a stop sign. It’s a signal. It means you are on the edge of growth. It means you are reaching beyond what is easy and familiar toward something more aligned, more honest, more you.

And maybe that’s the most hopeful part of all: change isn’t about becoming someone else. It’s about slowly peeling away what no longer fits, so you can live closer to the person you’ve always been.

So the next time resistance shows up, instead of asking “Why is this so hard?” - try asking, “What is this trying to teach me about where I’m going?”

Because within that discomfort lies the doorway to transformation.

We like to think of fear as something we feel only in moments of danger. But often, and silently, fear lives in the everyday - in our relationships, our work, our hopes for the future. It’s in the hesitation before we say how we really feel. It’s in the decision we avoid making because we’re afraid of what it might set in motion. It’s in the way we hold on too tightly to people or roles because we can’t imagine life without them.